If you've ever wondered whether traveling gets harder because you're getting older...
Or because you've simply been taught to travel the hardest possible way...
You need to see what happened on my family's 10-day Mediterranean cruise.
I'm 64.
Three months after I retired, my daughter-in-law decided that apparently meant I was declining.
My grandson Jake had just graduated high school. Since he was six, he'd had a poster of the Italian coast hanging above his desk. Cliffs. Boats. Little houses stacked along the water.
He'd point at it and say: “Grandma, we're going there someday.”
So for graduation, I decided someday had arrived. I offered to pay for the whole family. Ten days in the Mediterranean. My daughter-in-law Sarah volunteered to handle the cabins, flights and itinerary.
Then after graduation, I accidentally saw a text she'd sent Jake.
“Don't tell Grandma yet. She can't come on the cruise. She's gotten a bit senile since retiring.”
A week later, the family invited me to dinner. Sarah explained that international travel was “a lot.” Airports. Transfers. Foreign cities. Walking. Luggage. Someone would supposedly have to keep an eye on me the entire time.
Then she slid the final cruise invoice across the table.
The vacation I was apparently too senile to attend... I was still sharp enough to pay for.
I smiled. Paid the invoice. Then booked myself the last balcony cabin on the exact same sailing. I told nobody.
But I knew one thing. If I showed up flustered, dragging three suitcases and needing help everywhere I went, Sarah would use every little mistake as proof she'd been right.
That's when I called Ruth. And the $100 travel lesson she gave me changed the way I travel completely.